Date Night with Hoff

So Hoff is the second guy that I've been out with twice. He is also the only one where a third is planned. Last night we met up to see Sherlock Holmes and ended up having drinks at a a nearby bar. It was the same place where I met Whiskey.

Ok so during the movie I just slyly leaning towards him and brushing his leg...all hints that is was cool to put his arm around me or hold me hand...he didn't quite grasp it though. Guys really don't get hints. So finally more than half way into the movie I just went for his hand and he took it and started to caress it. I totally got butterflys!! Weird! Then later in the movie when i notice how hot my girls were looking I faked cold and he noticed. So he adjusted the way he was sitting so that he could wrap his arms around me and warm me up. I have to say that's pretty touchy for a second date but I was digging it. It was nice to be held and I think he smelled my hair. It was sweet.

So at the bar which impressed him! Score for me!! I was feeling like having a glass of wine and he followed. Turns out he likes semi dry reds like I do. However the house blend was total shit so we switched to beer. We kept getting closer to each other and his courge built with each drink. We started to flirt more openly and the rest of the bar fall away. There was a guy performing and I asked if he could a Neil Diamond song but he didn't hear me but Hoff did. This is where I started to swoon.

He claimed to be a Neil fan and I was all like yea right what dude knows/likes Neil? But he said he was for real and told me his favortie sing by him. Though he got the title a little wrong he mentioned my favorte song!! Major points!! Then he rattled off another and then he took me by total surpise when he started singing a few cords from one of Neil's more poplular hits!! OMG I fall in love right there!! What guy just starts singing Neil Diamond?? It was AWESOME!

We kept talking and I find out his family has season seats to the Cards...right behind Home Plate!! They also have a lake house...yet he is modest and non flashy.

I think the funnest part of the evening is when I pulled out my chapstick and he was all like OMG you take off the label too? Then he pulled out a tube of chapstick that was label less just like mine. It was too funny how excited he was that we should share such a quirky trait. Oh and we are both left handed!!

We just kept talking and touching. It was really nice. Then we started trading embarrssing stories! He is super funny! My face actually started to hurt from smiling and laughing. He also has a tendency to put his foot in his so I'm kinda off the hook from that!!

When it was time to leave we headed out our cars. He climbed in to mine as it heated up and totally went for a kiss. An open mouth french kiss. It was great! When we pulled apart he said that I was a good kisser and that I tasted good. It was cute! Then when we started kissing again he took off his glove so he could run his fingers through my hair! It was a nice touch.

I can't wait to see him again on Tuesday...I wonder what he has planned.


Pros

Knew two Neil Diamond songs…favorite is the same song (even if got the title wrong)
Sang Neil Diamond to prove he was a fan without being asked.
Hates coming to America with almost the same hatred as me.
Is also left handed.
Has season seats behind home plate for the Cards and a lake house at the Lake
Tells embarrassing stories and a tendency to also put his foot in his mouth.
Carries Chapstick and got weirdly excited that I also peel the label off!
After our first French kiss said while looking me in the eye that I’m a good kisser and that I taste good.
Made my face hurt again from laughing and smiling too much.
Is a good tipper.
Looks kinda like the husband from King of Queens.
Is really tight with his family.
Knows my hometown cause its where he went to college.
Ex Frat boy. Ex Catholic.
When kissing goodnight he took off his glove to run his hand through my hair.

Cons
Has a weird habit of closing his eyes when he is thinking or when he is interrupted also has an annoying habit of biting his thumb when nervous.
Kinda shy without booze, like didn’t make a move to hold me hand or anything during the movie last night.
Gets braver as the night wears on and booze is flowing.
Is the same height as me…kinda short for me.
My friends will tear him apart.

So tonight I have a date with another guy, we are doing Mexican food and Tequilla. Then at night end I'm going over to the Ex's to pack up my stuff. It's a stupid move I know. I mean its already going to be emotional but going there tipsy will only make things worse. Then not to mention that sex will most likely happen. Its since Xmas eve for me (with Balloon Man, who I'm no longer speaking to after Tuesday! I swear it this time!!!) and even longer for the Ex. He promises a good performance and I could totally use it. The sex with Balloon guy was too lame he was a great talker but don't actually carry through with any of it...total disppointment!

Sex with the Ex though that shit is hot. It starts off nice and gentle but once I've had one or two I turn into a freak and beg for it hard and rougher. Since we know what buttons to push and we feel safe with each other it can get pretty intense. I could use a long sack session and the Ex will totally be bringing his A game so I'm antsy as hell right now looking forward to it. Oh yes and I will be posting it on this new website I discover...Ijustmadelove.com.

Tomorrow I move!!!! I will get me cat back and my naked time! I plan on lots and lots of naked time!