The demise of Hoff

Ok so after 4 dates with Hoff I released him back in the world of dating. Granted date 4 was a last ditch attempt to see if there was something...there most defenity isn't! For the last week I ignored his texts and calls then after finally growing some balls on Wednesday I called him to tell him I wasn't interested. Here is the text convo following the call where I told him I wasn't interested in seeing him anymore. Its pretty funny!!

Him:So was that a "I'm really not interested" rejection or were you just trying to feel me out? I suck at detecting these things... (Really???? I said I wasn't into seeing you again...pretty clear.)

Me: Rejection

Him: :( Mind if I ask you a question? How could you think we don't have anything in common? (this was a line I used to cover for the fact that he had no friends, was lame in sexual history and a big nerd! Its a safety line!!)

Me: Well that was a small part of it some if it was that you seemed to lack confindence sober and then there were some other things I think ur a good guy just not for me, does that make sense? (Come on pal I'm trying to be nice)

Him: What do you mean by "lack of confidence sober?" (Are you fucking kidding me??)

Me: That ur kinda shy (and a no nerve man)

Him: I know I'm shy. I have depression. I can't help it. So you don't want to get more involved with me because of my medical problem? (Umm when did shyness and depression become one and the same???)

Me: Medical issue? It has nothing to do with that cant you just take it as it is? I'm not interested.

Him: Right that's why you mentioned it specifically. I thought you were different my mistake. (Nice attack on me...still not going to change me mind)

Me: We only went out a few times it didn't work out, it happens

Him: I wish you would have admitted up front that you were going to be this repulsed about something I can't change, it would have saved us both a lot of time.

Me: Replused? What are you even talking about??

Him: Me being shy my depression!!! Did you even read that?? (WTF!!!)

Me: First off I didn't know you had depression, it didn't even occur to me until you mentioned tonight and second I didn't mean to upset you, I'm just not into you

Him: Well its not something I'm exactly proud of telling people. Its not the 1st time this has happened and it gets hard to take after a while.

That was it...I didn't have a reply. I felt bad but really he made no sense at all. I'm so glad its over cause this guy is just nuts!!