Third Date with Hoff

So this was my first third date since I've been single. I was really excited and Hoff and I get along better and better. But our third date was a minor disappointment. He bored me. He really is quite nerdy and lacks social grace.

During dinner he talked about plants and his garden for a good 20 mintues...I started to tune it out as I have no interest at all in plants. He is a very smart fellow and he loves his plants. I can respect that but good god I don't want to listen to him talk about it forever!!

He has yet to mention any fun outings with friends...or friends period. He talks about his family all the time. I like a family guy but really one needs friends. Its wrong not to be social and stuff!!

He also mentioned that he has been single for the last 3 years..wtf?? Not a single lenghtly relationship in 3 years...warning flag!

Then we started to talk about sex...he hasn't made any advances or comments on dates 1 or 2. So I brought up the topic as I'm a sexual person. This guy is very tame and very uncomfortable talking about sex. As he asked me questions his eyes kept getting bigger and bigger. He was shocked at my answers. He asked if I've ever been caught in the act, duh who hasn't. He asked if I've been with more than one person at a time and in a night, ummm yes to both. He was shocked!

During the convo he got red in the face and was shifting his weight. He totally showed that he lacked confindence and that in itself is a huge turn off.

I hate guys without sexual expirence they are boring to be with and you have to teach them everything...I want a guy that either matches or exceeds me in expirence or skill. I am not a whore but some wet behind the ears act like I am just because I have a lengthy list of advangers!

So with all that factored in my interest in Hoff has taken a serious nose drive. He is nice and has a lot of great traits but he is a bit too goody goody for me.

***Random text from Hampton***
Out of the blue Hampton (the blind drummer with whom I stuck my foot in my mouth) texts me this week and wants to get together again. Its been such a time since we talked I no longer had his number in my phone. He has a work party this weekend and wants me to be his date. I told him I would go. Ummm open bar, free food and a chance to network!! I hope it goes well plus I have the night free so I need something to do. Wonder how bad I'll be with him this time??